We too have character due to the experiences - good, bad or indifferent - that prove evidence that we can survive. The character that we develop may not be seen externally as it does with a tree, but it is just as significant. How else do we learn empathy, sympathy, joy and love without those character-building experiences. Learn to grow through joy and pain, knowing that both are only moments in time and you will prevail if you just give it time.
Happy Easter 2017